"Don't be
your own biggest barrier in life," Sikora said away from the
court. "It's the person that you are. It's not being in a
wheelchair. Don't shut the door on yourself."
Sikora
became a paraplegic on May 15, 1971, suffering a spinal cord
injury when a drunken driver struck his car. Sikora was 17
and two weeks away from graduating from Elizabeth Forward
High School. He said the date of the accident is as personal
as his birthdate or wedding anniversary.
In the
first year or so after his accident, he said he gladly would
have welcomed the chance to walk again. Now, more than three
decades later, he said he wouldn't change a thing.
"I've
had a very blessed life," said the 50-something Sikora, who
declined to give his exact age. "I had the choice to be
depressed and give up on life, or I could take advantage of
the gifts God let me have. You need to look at your
blessings. Sometimes they're hidden behind things people
don't see at first."
Today,
the Freeport resident is an assistant coach for the Team USA
women's wheelchair basketball team and executive director of
Harmar-based HOPE Network, a charity he founded in 1997 to
keep physically handicapped people active through sports and
recreation. He also coaches the Steel City Starz, one of 12
all-female squads in the National Wheelchair Basketball
Association.
The
track and field athlete and basketball guard in high school
went on to earn a psychology degree from the University of
Pittsburgh, where he met his future wife, Susan Garrett-Sikora.
He started working as a social worker at the Harmarville
facility before spending more than 20 years as director of
the center's spinal cord injury program.
Ever
the athlete, he helped found the Pittsburgh Steelwheelers,
an all-male wheelchair basketball team, in 1977. By the
1990s, he was a guard on the men's national wheelchair
basketball team that won silver at the World Games in
England. He missed a chance to play in the Paralympics
because one of his heart medications was on the list of
banned substances.
He'll
get another chance this fall, when he helps coach the
women's team in China. He said this might be his last
go-round with the team after spending two decades traveling
the globe for tournaments from Brazil to Japan.
"It's
a dream come true to get to the Paralympics, as a coach or a
player," Sikora said.
But
Sikora's mission will not end after his days with Team USA.
He'll
still help others with disabilities through HOPE Network and
he'll still coach the Starz. Jokingly complaining that he's
getting too old, Sikora cannot help but find himself in the
middle of a pickup game in the gym just down the hall from
his office.
"Next
basket," he said after more than an hour of playing. "Pitt's
on in five minutes."